Ya ok, whatever root....i don't believe in this name and shame bs. If myself or one of my close friends tells me something and then shows me things aswell...it's FACT. So how the f&*k is this name a shaming someone when it's TRUE??? and it's also a well known fact about all the things mana said. How the heck can we "inform" our friends and or family who to stay away from and what's going on. This may be a rule of this place, but it doesn't make it right (morally) if you can NOT tell other's EXACTLY what's going on... Making something up and then starting trouble is 1 thing you can say is (name and shame) but when your being truthful and honest, it SURELY is NOT. I've also had the exact same experience as mana and MANY others who have told me this same story. Have a nice day.